Letting go of trying to manipulate life to get what you need.

So often others are afraid of not getting what they need and so they try to manipulate life to give them what they think is right for them or what they deserve.

The only problem is this action shows the underlying belief that You are not going to get what you need.

For today experiment with truly trusting that life is on your side and conspiring in your favor. Let go of all desire to manipulate or control life so that you can get what you need.

When has trying to manipulate life ever worked in the long haul?

Have you noticed that it when you totally let go completely that miracles happen?

Have you noticed it is when you stop trying to make it happen, force it to happen, beg it into happening: that that is when it happens?

So let go of your petty manipulations.
Let go of your desire to control.

Let go of that part of you that thinks your mortal self is running this show.
You have no control. It is an illusion.

Show your trust in life by letting go of the desire to control it.
Surrender to life.

The universe has a much bigger and brighter plan for your life than you can possibly imagine.

The limited mind has no idea of what the unlimited mind is capable of.

And so surrender your deepest desires.
Surrender your deepest dreams.

Give spirit the control.
When you give spirit the control the miraclulous can happen.

Put your desire out into the universe.
But do not dictate from whom or where it will come.

For example: if it is more money you desire, put that desire out to the universe. Embody the feeling as if it is here. Embody the feeling of having received it. But do not dictate from whom or where it should come. Let the unknown surprise you. Let go and let the universe bring to you all that you need. This is a supreme letting go, a supreme trust.

Do not be rash.
Listen deeply to the forces that are guiding you.

See how deeply and profoundly you can let go of your desire to manipulate life.

Stop looking for an outcome.
Stop trying to predict from where it will come.

Let the good Lord surprise you.

And surprised you will be.

Let go of the desire to control.
Let go of the desire to manipulate .

Let go and know that all that is right to you will come.

If there is action to be taken, you will know.
You will be guided.

Let go profoundly and completely and
Let the magic begin.

~Hayley Mermelstein

Let go of trying to make anything happen

Thinking about letting go and surrendering as I sit on my hotel deck in Florida overlooking the ocean. Thinking of Lester Levenson and Joe Dispenza too. Appreciate everything I’ve learned in the last few years….

I let go of trying to make anything happen.

What would happen if I just let go?

Would the world end?
Would the world come crashing down?
Would the forces that be give up on me?

What would happen if I just let go?

What synchronicities might find their way to me if I just surrendered and put it in Gods hands.

What synchronicities might happen if I got out of the way.

Don’t be small minded.
Stop trying to figure it out with your mortal mind.

Let go I say.
Let go of trying to make anything happen.

Let go and allow life to unfold.
Let go and trust.

Stop trying to control anything.
Stop trying to make anything happen.

Let go.
Let go.

Let go and you will be guided.
Let go and you will unleash the magic of the universe.
Let go and you will unleash syncronicity.
Let go and all that is meant to you will come to you in its own time.

Let go in a profound way.

Let go of trying to make anything happen.
Let go of trying to figure anything out.

Let to and allow.
Let go and allow.

Magic happens when you let go.
Let this be your experiment with life.

Stop trying to make anything happen.

Stop looking for it.
Stop anticipating it.

A profound letting go.

What magic happens when you let go?
What magic unfolds when you surrender?

What syncronicities might find their way to you.

Let this be your experiment today.
Stop trying to make anything happen.

Let go.
Let go.

From now on, manifest everything you need by letting go.
Put it in Gods hands.

Let go in a profound way.
The key to manifestation is to let go.

Let go and trust.
Let go and allow.

Let go and see what unfolds when you are out of the way, and not trying to manipulate life to get your needs met.

Let go.
Let go.

Let this be your grand experiment with life today.

Let go of trying to make anything happen.

Be the queen or the king.
Let what is meant for you come in its own time.

No graveling.
No begging.

No manipulating life.

A profound trust.
A profound allowing.
A profound surrender.

Let go.
Let go.

Let go and you will be guided.
Let go and all you need will come to you.
Let go and when the time is right, you will know what to do.

Let go of trying to figure anything out.
Let go of trying to make anything happen.

Let go and give the universe the reins.
Let go and be at peace.

What is meant for you will come to you.
Let go and trust.

Let go and trust.
Let go and trust.

~Hayley Mermelstein

What if?

What if whatever is transpiring in your life right now, no matter how painful, if deeply important to helping you become the person that you are meant to become?

Can you surrender to it?
Can you accept it?

Can you allow it?
Can you just be with your pain?

What if this pain is transforming you into the person that you are meant to become?

Be with it all.
Welcome it all.

Resist nothing.

Be with your pain and let it burn away all that needs to be transformed within you.

Be with your pain and let it consume you.

Be with your pain and let it soften your sharp edges.
Be with your pain and let it burn away your arrogance.
Be with your pain and let it transform you into the person that you are meant to become.

Don’t try to get rid of your pain.

It is here to heal you.

Unity vs Division

Me, you.
Us, them.
Right,wrong.

You are selfish.
No, you are selfish.

Black, white.
Pink, purple.

Who is right?
Who is wrong?

Who is the sheep?
Who is the wise one?

In the words of Rumi:

Out beyond right and wrong there is a field.
I’ll meet you there.

Fight among yourselves.
Bicker some more.

They want us fighting.
They want us mad.

Stir the pot.
Stir some more.

When does it stop?

When you decide.
One person at a time.

Step out of the battle.
Put down the sword.

Surrender at last.

Can I live these words?
I don’t know?

This is not a fighting song.

Step into your power.
Lead the way.

Put down the sword.

I’ll go first.
I’ll go first.

~Hayley Mermelstein

Which will you choose?

She is two years old and gripping her mom’s hand tightly.

And at the same time an interesting and intriguing sight looms ahead.

Oh, sweetie pie,

It’s a big world out there, but you are going to have to let go of your mom’s hand if you want to see it.

There is intrigue in her eyes.
The debate looms large.

Which will it be?

The comfort of mom’s hand or the adventure of the unknown.

Which will it be?

I ask myself this same question every day.

And every day I am afraid.

And some days I let go of the hand that holds me and some days I cling.

The unknown beacons.

What will you do sweet one?

Which will you choose?

The Truth

I’m ready for the truth now.

The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

I woke up with this feeling today.
After months and even years of confusion.

I’m ready for the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

What would you know, if you were not pretending not to know?

What truth have your pretended not to see?

I want the truth. The whole truth. And nothing but the truth.

And I don’t want to call a friend.
And I don’t want to consult the psychic.
And I don’t want to talk to a therapist.

No, I want to see it for myself.

I want the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Don’t water it down for me.
Don’t sugar coat it.

I want truth.
I want honesty.
I want total transparency.

What would you know if you weren’t pretending not to know?

What truth would revel itself to you, if you were ready to receive it?

Do you want the truth?
Are you ready for the truth?

As for me, I’m tired of living a lie.

I want the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Reveal your secrets to me oh universe.

I’m ready.

I trust

Here is an excerpt from this weeks meditation class on trust. Enjoy!

I trust.

I trust.
I trust.

I let go and I trust the process of life.
I let go and I trust the process of life.

I trust.
I trust.

I trust that all of life is conspiring in my favor.
I trust that spirit is working with me to manifest what I need.

I trust that everything is always working out for me.
I trust that I walk in the charmed circle of Gods love.

I trust.
I trust.

I trust that I am learning from my challenges.
I trust that my challenges have come to make me stronger.

I trust that I am learning from my places of ease and
I trust that I am learning from my challenges.

I trust that I am learning from all of life.
I trust that all of life is conspiring in my favor.

Take a moment now and let yourself be filled with a feeling of trust.

Affirm:

I trust.
I trust.

Feel the vibration of the words.
Embody it.

Allow every cell of your body to be filled with trust.

I trust.
I trust.

See how deeply you can go into trust.

Walk in trust.
Sit in trust.
Stand in trust.

Allow yourself to be immersed in the feeling of trust.

I trust.
I trust.

Now combine your trust with wisdom and wise decision making.
Affirm:

I trust and I am wise.
I am a wise decision maker.

I couple my trust with wisdom.

Take a moment now and allow yourself to filled with a feeling of trust. See how deeply you can go into the vibration of trust. Allow your body to be filled with trust. When you are immersed in the vibration of trust, your crown chakra will naturally open. When your crown chakra is open you can more easily access and hear your spiritual guides and beings of light who are all around you. When your crown chakra is open you can receive downloads from the universe.

Take a moment now and ask: What do I need to know at this time? Listen deeply and be aware of what information comes to you. Take time every day to immerse yourself in the vibration of trust. As always combine your trust in life with wise decision making.

Also do not confuse your trust in life and trust in spirit with trust in people. People are learning and growing and evolving. Unless they have reached full enlightenment they cannot be fully trusted. Put your trust in life and listen deeply to guidance. Trust, be wise, and listen. You will be guided.

~Hayley Mermelstein

For more information about our meditation class that meets every Thursday night at 7 p.m. EST on Zoom, please contact me at hayleymae@verizon.net or 413-992-8581.